Daily Money Managers – Help for the Distance Caregiver

More than 34 million Americans are caring for aging loved ones. According to the National Institute on Aging, 15% of those caregivers live at least an hour away from the family members who need their help. This presents a significant burden to those distance caregivers, who often have to take time off work for travel to help with shopping, medical appointments and paying bills.

Managing household finances is often one of the first areas where elders need help. In fact, according to AARP, 7% of adults receiving social security benefits have difficulty managing their household finances. In most cases, when elders need help managing money, adult children step in. But if the adult children live far away it may make daily, hands-on money management difficult or impossible.

This is where a daily money manager (DMM) can help. A DMM works with the senior and the involved family member to provide support in managing and organizing the day-to-day financial responsibilities of the household and the senior. This may include routine tasks such as paying bills, preparing checks for signature, making bank deposits and dispensing cash. It may also include more complex tasks like negotiating with creditors, maintaining home payroll records for attendants or other home employees, and calculating federal and state withholding and FICA taxes.

A daily money manager’s role is three-fold: An advocate, who informs the elder about community services available, benefits he or she is entitled to, and application assistance; a debt manager, who helps negotiate with creditors; and a bill payer, who organizes the bills and reminds the elder when to pay each bill; or the DMM may have authorization to pay the bills from the elder’s bank account.

Daily money managers can also play a role in protecting elders from financial abuse or scams. They can review bank and credit card statements looking for signs of abuse or fraud – such as large, unexplained withdrawals of money, checks written to charities or other groups in unreasonably large amounts, or any other suspicious activity.

Daily money managers come from a variety of backgrounds. While the profession is not yet licensed there is a certification process – Professional Daily Money Manager (PDMM) – which requires sitting for an exam and keeping current through ongoing education.

A common thread among some DMMs is the experience of caring for an elderly loved one’s financial well-being. In my case, in addition to helping my parents, I’ve leveraged my education – engineering degree and MBA – and 30 years of experience in the corporate world to build a business helping seniors and their families navigate the day-to-day activities of managing their household finances. Some of the things I’ve done for clients include: setting up online bill pay; negotiating contracts with vendors; setting up controls to help prevent financial abuse; and developing various financial scenarios to help families determine the most economically feasible living situation for their senior.

The greatest value I provide, however, is the peace of mind for adult children or others who are caring for their aging loved ones from a distance. If you know of someone who could use the help of a Daily Money Manager, please let me know. If I can’t help them directly, I can put them in touch with my network of Daily Money Managers across the country!

One response to “Daily Money Managers – Help for the Distance Caregiver”

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    Deborah Driscoll-Jones

    I know about cargiving.When my dad became ill my mom who was an RN was his caregiver with my help.
    It took a lot out of her with no help form the Council on Aging. In the 80’s there was no help for these elderly people. He lasted for 10 years after all that I thought i was going to loose my mom she was so tired and worn out that her blood pressure had sky rocketed, so I took her to the Caymen Islands for a long needed rest!!!! Then about 10 years later I became the sole caretaker of my mom. Help came from Hospice. If any organization needs your help it is them, they are wonderful people who give of themselves and want nothing in return. I can’t say enough about them

    Deborah

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